Our expert says:
See a personal counsellor firsrt of all to clarify your confusion about relationships and fair expectations, then see a marriage counsellor together. Its understandable that you feel sexually inhibited by the presence of the children in the same room --- can't your parents care for the kids sometimes, to let the pair of you have some privacy ?
The pair of you need to negotiate a fair distribution of chores and payments ( not fair for him to expect you to pay for everything --- what happens to his earnings ? ) But try earnestly to sort out these problems before deciding to leave, and don't start an affair, however fristrating this is. Is the other guy keen to take you on permanently, with both kids ?
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