Our expert says:
Sounds like she was consistently reluctant to marry you, or perhaps to marry anyone, and one wonders why she did actually go through with the marriage. Her particular comments sound more like excuses in somone who did not want to be married at all.
Can members of your and her family help and talk with her, to at least better understand what is going on ?
If you are to break up with her, it may be best that the house is in your name and if she has contributed nothing towards paying for it, she may have little or no claim on it in the divorce, but you'd need legal advice about that.
YOu sound like a nice guy who has tried hard and it sounds as though she really hasn't tried at all. Do consider divorce, and don't be in such a hurry to marry next time, before you and the woman really know each other much better
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