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If your intended relationship with her as she now is, the woman you met and feel "seriously related" to ? Or are you primarily intending to be an archeologist, diggin into her past, into whatver happened before she even knew you existed ? If you insist you won't judge her on any aspect of her past --- what else do you intend to do with it when excavated ? We can all be scared of the unknown, but it's the unknown future which mauy contain risks, not the unknown past. Are there perhaps aspets of YOUR past which are relevant now in the sense of making you feel so insecure about her past ? Couples counselling might help. Whatever she reveals will not help you, because your sense of insecurity lies in your lack of self-confidence, not in her particular history
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