Our expert says:
YOu don't seem to mention the dad - has he no part to play in the raising of his sons, or at least paying for it ?
As for your partner, yes, you were betrayed, and her choices and decisions showed no real respect for you, or the burdens you have accepted to help HER family ( not your own ). It's understandable that you feel betrayed and used. She owes you explanations and a long discussion of what's in the possible relationship for You, apart from caring for her family. The extent to which you have provided for each other, that you describe, is considerable, and would lead one to expect her to have been far more frank with you.
Does she really think the Facebook woman would help to care for her twin sibs ? If no, doesn't she think that sort of thing matters ?
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