Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
It often seems that one person in a marriage does not always want the divorce. However, both parties must remember that divorce does not indicate a failure, but rather the realization that two people have chosen not to grow together anymore.
You seem focused on what will people say, their judgment and how will your husband survive and where will he live?
First a relationship and the ending of one has nothing to do with other people. It is your life and what you chose to do with your life is up to you and not about what people will think about it. As to what will your husband do after the separation is also not of your concern. You are both adults and your life is your own.
You have raised the possibility of being in denial. This is a very important factor to bring into your awareness. Explore what it is that you may have overlooked in your "great" relationship that could indicate signs that you were slowly growing apart. Do not expect to understand all of it at once and your anger is perfectly normal and acceptable but allow to explore that partners chose to be together for an unknown time period to learn the lessons they had to teach each other rather than simply blaming your spouse for what happened.
All the best.
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