Our expert says:
It makes sense for you to calmly notify your family that your home is your home and not a hotel, and that NONE of them are welcome to come to stay without politely notifying you in time and sharing expenses and chores like your uncle does.
And I agree with purple - tell your brother that his unfair complaints and his expectation that he should be waited on is offensive and unaceptable, so he must find his own place within a month, and meanwhile either provide his share of the expenses and chores, or hire someone else to do so for him
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