Our expert says:
Guysm guysm these EXTREMELY long postings are very difficult to read and follow - PLEASE draft them and edit them down to be sure only the essential details and question are included !
Why do you choose to continue to get involved with those family members who seem to be, from your story, irresponsible and malicious liars ? It isn't compulsory to associate with them, or allow them to visit let alone stay with you.
Your brother shouldn't have been staying with you at all, and when he made such ridiculously selfish demands, you should have refused. Do so in future.
Your parents seem unreasonably devoted to your brother, and in ways which will ultimately not be good for him.
Why not cut ties with them, explaining that their cruelty, selfishness and lying make contact with them intolerable ?
There seems to be nothing to gain and much to lose by any contacts with them.
Lead your own happy lives, and leave them to create the nasty world they seem to prefer. From the sound of it, I suspect that many other people in the community have grown to know them well, and will not be eager to see them let alone to believe their tall tales.
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