Our expert says:
This is more a question of etiquette than psychiatriy, so I'm sure other readers will be able to respond usefully. I'm not at all sure what you're worried about ; I very much doubt that an orgy is being planned. At well below that age I attended birthday's of other kids, without experiencing any damage. What, specifially are you worried about ? Why not phone or contact the mother involved, maybe offer to help with some aspect of the party if she needs any help, and set your mind at rest ?
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