Our expert says:
Is easier for you to insert two fingers in your vagina than allowing the penis in the vagina, because when you are inserting your fingers in your vagina you are in control. Because of your previous experiences with pain, you expect pain during intercourse with a penis, and therefore tighten your pelvic floor, which reduces the size of your vagina and makes it difficult for the penis to enter. Your problem is your fear. Continually inserting more and more fingers in your vagina, in order to get used to the feeling of relaxation in the pelvic floor. When having intercourse and make sure that there has been adequate foreplay and that you are ready to receive the penis. Tell him when the right time is for you to be penetrated. There is no such thing as a penis too big for a vagina. Remember that a baby will go through that vagina, one day.
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