Our expert says:
Why does she not wanna go for counselling ? Does she not want to be helped ? Does she not want to be helped to feel better ? IS she perhaps ( some people are, in a situation like this ) more intent upon noticeably suffering , so as to try to mak her Ex feel bad, than in moving on and making a happier life for herself ? If they have broken up before and always, so far, got back together, she may be intent on forcing that to happen again.
It is always tragic when someone elevates one love in their life to the point of obsession, and when they insist that they "cannot live without X" --- they can, what they are insisting on is that they refuse to do so. That's different.
If she insists on being stubborn, and focussed totally on trying to force him to return, there's not much room for you to do anything other than indicate your readiness to help her get the help she needs when she is prepared to accept it
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