Our expert says:
Taking him into consideration is reasonable ( just as he should take you into consideration ).
If you both enjoy sharing the garden, feeding the gardener is a reasonable expense to share - but a steak dinner isnt required at all. it sounds as though your agreement was that you would pay for food ( for the 2 of you, not 3 ) and that he presumably pays rent and lights ? But you do need to discuss this calmly with him, rather than brooding resentfully. And if you can;t reach a plan that suits both of you and leaves both of you happy rather than resentful, reverse the plan and move back to your own place
He's willing to shift towards your preference for good salads, but its fair for him to want a bit more variation than salad twice a day every day, just as you wouldn't like steak twice a day every day.
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