Our expert says:
When you left hospital, they should have arranged for you to see a counsellor, to help you deal with your feelings.
It's quite possible that your bf is having difficulty ealing with his own feelings about this sad event, too, but not recopgnizing your own needs. SDometimes when you most need them, people become emotionally unavailable because they can't handle their own feelings and try to ignore them completely.
Try to persuade him to see a relationship or general counsellor with you, to work on the impact this event has had on both of you.
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