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Posted by: Me | 2011/04/13

Orgasm

Hi Doc,
I have been in this relationship for 3 years now, our sex life was great eversince until now. and the problem is with me, I been having difficulty to have an orgasm, and this also creates problem between us coz he things i dont have feelings for him anymore, of which i do and i love him so much.

is there anything that you can suggest that i take or do?

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It is often difficult for partners to correctly understand their different reactions to sexual intercourse and love making. It might be worth exploring the difference in sexual arousal response between men and women. Furthermore many women experience clitoral stimulation with penetration or just clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. We have to be open for the fact that we do change and that our bodies change over time to. It might be worth investing in reassuring your bond with your partner on all level and not only the sexual and really spend time on touching base with one another and the journey of making love and not focus too much on the outcome – the climax.

You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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Posted by: sexologist | 2011/04/13

It is often difficult for partners to correctly understand their different reactions to sexual intercourse and love making. It might be worth exploring the difference in sexual arousal response between men and women. Furthermore many women experience clitoral stimulation with penetration or just clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. We have to be open for the fact that we do change and that our bodies change over time to. It might be worth investing in reassuring your bond with your partner on all level and not only the sexual and really spend time on touching base with one another and the journey of making love and not focus too much on the outcome – the climax.

You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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