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Posted by: Vanilla | 2010-02-08

Orgasm

im a woman and have been having sex for some time now, and i have not orgasmed! what could be wrong?

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there could be numerous causes for your problem. however, the best solution is to masturbated yourself to orgasm. once you begin to realise what touch, feelings, movement etc arouses you and leads you to orgasm, you will be in a better position to inform your partner of these during sex.

for more info, please see: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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Posted by: Pretty | 2010-02-25

hahaha Mr G, m sure yu wud like to assist her

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Posted by: Mr G | 2010-02-09

If you don' t know your own body' s " buttons"  how does a man suppose to know? One can read up as much as you like, but in the end every woman is different.

The best advice I can give you is to learn how to masturbate on your own. Once you know what you enjoy and what works then you can teach your man. A vibrator is also a very good help for this. Especially in the beginning, but if you want to truely master your own body learn to masturbate using just your own fingers.

If you won' t masturbate then bring your man in to help in a playful way. Again a vibrator will help alot, especially with the stimulation of the clit. Make sure he lubes his fingers good and thry different strokes and speeds inside with the vibrator on top. It will take time to get to that first orgasm... but once the " connection"  is made it should be a lot easier.

And what ever method you choose: Don' t try and think of how an orgasm should feel, just feel what is happening and adjust to what feels the best. The orgasm will follow when the time is right, but concentrate on the feeling not the final goal.

PS: I can assist you with more details should your require more.

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Posted by: sexologist | 2010-02-09

there could be numerous causes for your problem. however, the best solution is to masturbated yourself to orgasm. once you begin to realise what touch, feelings, movement etc arouses you and leads you to orgasm, you will be in a better position to inform your partner of these during sex.

for more info, please see: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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Posted by: A man | 2010-02-08

I must sort of agree with the above responses, a lot of the time the man is to blame for the woman failing to orgasm, the man needs to learn how to please his woman, it takes time and some effort, but the results are well worth it. The women does need to be in tune with her body and know what is required to stimulate it, and this she can only learn by self experimentation and exploring.

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Posted by: Woman | 2010-02-08

You need to get to know your body! what does your body respond to? Where are your pleasure spots? Ask your man to play a little...

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Posted by: Anon | 2010-02-08

Your man !!!!

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