Our expert says:
Firstly explore with your husband why he has reservations about oral sex – validate his feelings about it. It may be helpful for him to understand that the tongue is soft and agile so can bring incredible pleasure without hurting, like fingers sometimes do! I would suggest that you cut a small square of cling film and place it over the vulva. This may make it easier for him – put some honey or other tasty substance on it to make it fun!
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