Our expert says:
Whew, this is a difficult situation and I cannot possibly explain as I don't know what exactly happened for your wife. I can only make some suggestions...
It certainly is a very confusing reaction; I just wonder if she didn't expect to see you enjoy it? There is something that smacks of humiliation in the fact that you 'didn't do it properly' the first time and so you had to do it 'properly'. I wonder if she also now feels insecure because you have asked to do it again? It could be that is something do with you/your reaction but it could also be that she thought she would find it arousing and in reality the fantasy acted out was overwhelming. She may not herself understand her own reaction. If this is causing conflict between the two of you I recommend that you/she sees a psychologist to try to understand how this happended and how you can move through it.
Claire - SASHA
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