Our expert says:
It seems from your letter that you have an active sex life and are generally very happy together as a couple. It is difficult for me to get a complete picture of your relationship in this forum. My comments would be the following. It is normal at the beginning of a relationship for libidos to be higher which results in more explorative sex. You mention your frustration however which needs to be heard. There are ways to deal with this frustration. I would caution against acting outside of your marriage however, as the consequences can be severe. I would urge you to get professional help. It is of course preferable if both partners attend but you can still get help on your own. Contact the SASHA (South African Sexual Health Association) helpline Tel -0860 100 262 for referral.
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