Our expert says:
I suppose the idea makes financial sense. You're not being unreasonable, though strongly opposing an idea the two bridegrooms and presumably their family support, may not be helpful. Why not discuss this with them, raising your concerns, and seeing how things might be modified to improve the situation. Maybe there could be 2 separate ceremonies ( one taking proper account of your culture ) and one for the other couple, but one feast ? Can his family, as this is being done so as to suit them, perhaps contribute funds to enable your family to arrive earlier and get rested before the speeches start ?
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