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Posted by: H | 2009-12-01

OK, help so ' n bietjie

Terwyl Cybershrink weg is, moet julle sommer help, die meeste van julle is in elk geval dieselfde kliente :-)

Ek het ' n vriendin en ons kliek lekker en ons belangstellings is dieselfde en natuurlik is die seks baie goed. Nou en dan baklei ons, en wat doen ek? Ek wil tydelik van die probleem wegkom, en ek klim in my kar en gaan na my eie plek toe. Dit dryf haar natuurlik teen die mure uit. Wat my bekommer is: indien ons getroud sou wees, wat doen ek dan? Dan is daar nerens om heen pad te gee as ek moeg is vir haar tirades nie. Dan sit ek vasgevang tussen 4 mure terwyl sy aanhou met dit wat haar op die oomblik ongelukkig maak.

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indeed - you have answered your own questions!
In a problem situation women want to discuss and talk about it till its resolved. Men on the other hand , prefer to withdraw into a quiet place where they can think it through and find a solution.
This bahviour is programmed in our genetic make up. I cant be changed. It can only be modified or attenuated. Therefore you need to have a calm discussion with your partner about these different coping strategies and agree on a compromise that will suit both of you most of the time.
Og - I almost forgot. This is not an event - its a process and will continue throughout your life - no matter who the partner is

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Our users say:
Posted by: Blossom | 2009-12-02

If she is attacking you she has anger management issues. Relationships like that almost always end in disaster. She needs counselling and will never stop unless she works through her issues. You shouldnt have to put up with someone who is violent and out of control.

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Posted by: Rick | 2009-12-02

Well its easy, dont marry her then?

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Posted by: H | 2009-12-01

Dankie, Woman. Probleem is dis wanneer ek en sy stry en sy val my aan, en ' n man kan net soveel abuse vat.

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Posted by: Woman | 2009-12-01

H, jy moet met haar praat, sy het nodig om iemand te sien aangaande haar woede. Daar is definitief iets wat haar pla. Nie jy nie, maar iets wat haar laat optree en reageer soos wat sy tans doen.

Voumense is heeltemal ' n ander spesie, ons bitch altyd so bietjie as iets ons pla en as ons voel ons ander helftes verstaan, dan raak ons sommer vreeslik liefdevol. Probeer net vgl keer hierdie. As sy begin bitch oor iets, dan se jy ja, of hmm, of ag dis vreeslik! en toe? en laat haar dit net uit haar gestel kry. Se ook iets in die lyn van: " ag, ek is so jammer dat jy met sulke probleme by die die werk sit/ dat jou vriendin jous eergemaak het/ dat jy ' n slegte dag gehad. Kan ek vir jou ' n koppie tee maak/ ' n drankie gooi, dan kom sit jy so bietjie hier dat ek jou kan cuddle" 

Dalk, net dalk, sal sy dan onspan en jy sal boonop die held van die dag wees.

Hoop dit help..

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Posted by: Katie | 2009-12-01

just imagine if things were rosie all the time you would miss out on make up sex. Don' t run away stay and see what happens try to listen and not ignore, if you show an intrest in what she says, she will see that you are trying at least. we all can' t agree all the time.

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Posted by: ...... | 2009-12-01

raak gay....

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Posted by: H | 2009-12-01

Ok, tot nou toe net sotlike antwoorde. Iemand wat daarop kan verbeter?

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Posted by: hmmmm | 2009-12-01

lol egg!!!

nee jong dan moet jy maar weg bly van die vroumense!!!lmga!!!

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Posted by: Egg | 2009-12-01

Ry na die naaste kroeg toe!

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Posted by: Sexologist | 2009-12-01

indeed - you have answered your own questions!
In a problem situation women want to discuss and talk about it till its resolved. Men on the other hand , prefer to withdraw into a quiet place where they can think it through and find a solution.
This bahviour is programmed in our genetic make up. I cant be changed. It can only be modified or attenuated. Therefore you need to have a calm discussion with your partner about these different coping strategies and agree on a compromise that will suit both of you most of the time.
Og - I almost forgot. This is not an event - its a process and will continue throughout your life - no matter who the partner is

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