Our expert says:
I really can't deal with so many details about a failing relationship. What is needed is for the pair of you to either decide to end the relationship in as friendly a manner as you can, or if you really want it to have a good chance of succeeding, to see a couples counsellor together. Only in such sessions is it worth discussing the minutiae of the relationship.
As for your specific question - yes indeed, a man can go without sex for a month, for a year, if there's a good reason for doing so. The nonsense that so many seem to believe that they must have sex as often as possible or that they will somehow be harmed by actually doing something else, causes death and misery across out nation.
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