Our expert says:
It really is possible to avoid allowing anyone to make you pregnant before you have learned enough about him to be reasonable sure he is not an abuser or otherunpleasant variety of human. When someone merely says he's separated ( which might merely mean she's away for the weekend ) check it out before choosing to0 believe him. Dont believe sotries about plans for a divorce, but wait until the divorce has been officially announced in court. DO go to the maintenance court and have the court force him to pay proper maintenance for the child's costs ; that is quite separate from the issue of whether he should have any access to the child. Having to pay maintenance will not only directly benefit the child ( and indirectly you ) but may help force him to face his responsibilities.
See a counsellor if possible, to help support you and help you make wiser decisions on how to get out of this mess, which need only be temporary.
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