Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
following both your posts I want to ask you. What was the positive intention behind the way you treated your wife? You say your wife "worshiped" the grounds you were on...did you feel that you ought to be worshiped? It seems that there is deep rooted wound which leads a need to dismiss important people in your life...
Contrary to what many people may say. Loving someone is not hard. Love just is. You either love something or someone or you don't. The fact that it is mentioned that we have to work at it in a relationship is because we have to look at our pattern of communication and our "emotional intelligence". Your experience has brought you to become aware of a destructive pattern, and this is great. Only when we become aware can we change but you really should seek help to guide you in this newly found awareness.
Wishing you all the best.
Nadia - SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association
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