Our expert says:
It is quite common after the birth of a baby to experience problems reconnecting sexually, even in the best of circumstances. Your added stress of financial difficulties complicates this transition. Some men feel inadequate when it comes to helping with babies and possible feelings of failure with regard to 'providing for his family' may make all this worse for your husband. I suggest you talk through what are the positives in your current situation and what things you would both like to see improve. Getting someone to baby sit while you go out for a walk or coffee will allow time for communication. This might help open up the sexual conversations as well.
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