Our expert says:
I understand how distressing this could be for you. However, from your story, you encountered fertility problems in your first marriage, and presumably you would have realized that they were likely to be present in any other marriage, too.
I don't know enough about HIV to know whether this might have anything at all to do with this.
Maybe you should see a counsellor to deal with your feelings about all this, including exploring ways to see yourself, your marriage and sexual activity as worthwhile whether or not it can lead to conception. Already you have one child, and he has two, who need to be cared for.
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