Our expert says:
Maybe this particular pattern isn't working for either of you. Have you tried not "catching him" then fighting, but talking about it, about what worries you, about how it is for him at home and workless while you travel for work, and so on ?
I agree he's unlikely to find work on chat sites, but does he ALSO seek work during working hours ? Have you discussed with him how he feels about being unemployed, and where he is looking, and whether you might be able to help ?
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