Our expert says:
I suppose it could be for several reasons...he could have turned over a new leaf as far as his religious values go, he could be suffering from low libido and is looking for a way around the problem without having to face it (low libido could be a side effect of his drinking AND/OR his being overweight), it could be his has other sexual concerns and hopes that these will improve when you marry... Try to get some understanding from him, as this sort of unilateral decision making about something which impacts on you directly is not ideal for a relationship. I'm also wondering about his heavy drinking every day...I wonder how you feel about this and why he does this? Is he trying to cope with some problem, or could he have an addiction? Either way, it would make sense for you to think very carefully about how to deal with this before you marry.
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