Our expert says:
Whether or not he is still thinking of the other woman, we can't tell you, and maybe even he couldn't. But isn't marriage counselling what you bothn need to get involved in ? You're not being selfish --- if you don't feel like sex and are emotionlly upset by what happened, that's reasonable even if inconvenient for both of you. Counselling is the way to go, to understand each other better and explore whether the relationship can be healed, or whether you are moving towards parting. But doing so with the benefits of expert advice and more honest and mediated communication about all this
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