Our expert says:
By the sound of it she is communicating clearly that she needs more time. There could be several reasons for that and it is dangerous just to speculate. If she does not feel comfortable to provide you with an answer, it is may be advisable to seek the assistance from a professional psychologist in the relationship negotiations. It is however important to communicate about where you both are and to find a way to accommodate one another. Applying pressure without a proper understanding could have negative implications on both of you as individuals as well as on the relationship.
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