Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
I like when men are sensitive to their hearts, to their feelings. I like that you recognise that experimenting in the bedroom is actually the last thing you could do right now. I don't know your age..but since you write to me in this forum of ageing I have to assume you are older (?)
Whatever your age , clearly more important if you are older, you need to get yourself medically checked up - always- just to be sure this low desire is not a symptom of a medical problem.
Once you ascertain you are medically sound and you do not have a bad life stlye that can impact negatively on your desire, then you got to look honestly where you are telling me you know where the problem lies: within the relationship.
Your body is talking to you - it tells the truth you may not want to say out loud : you no longer feel attracted to your girlfriend , you no longer feel your heart in love with her and you cannot get over the betrayals that happened.
I suggest couple therapy for both of you so you can get resolution on this relationship- trust me , you feel horny again when the right person crosses your path.
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