Our expert says:
Ageing and Sexuality expert
It is so safe to flirt, sms and e mail women when you know you will not be sexual with them. Come home to your own wife who is real , and suddenly you actually have to "perform". You have to walk your talk.
Of course you have a right to still be sexual, to be appreciated as a woman. And of course you have a right to be the recipient of your husband's affections and attentions.
Heart disease and medication to treat it will cause erectile dysfunction and even low sexual desire. Often times men begin to avoid their mates as they know they have sexual dysfunction. Often times men are embarrassed to discuss this with a partner.
I urge you to get your husband to a doctor who will discuss his sexuality with him, provide him with treatment if necessary. then you two need to visit a sex therapist as the best medication in the world cannot get you two to get back to sex again. The longer time that goes by the more difficult it is to make love again. Go before your resentment, self image and anger boil over.
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