Our expert says:
Therapeutic intervention should be at the top of the list of priorities for you and your relationship. Sex can easily be described as the cement that holds the building blocks of the relationship together. If the bricks/building blocks have been damaged/have shifted or is not mended – we cannot expect the cement to ensure that the building remains standing. You need to heal the hurt, distrust, lack of respect, loss of closeness, etc that was cause by the past. Your relationship is going to need hard work to recover, but I am not in the position to comment about your future. The pain that you experience during intercourse is most probably due to your inability to relax and an indication of your emotional pain. You need to seek professional help to assist you to create the future you need and deserve – you have a full life ahead of you.
You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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