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Posted by: Just Me | 2012/03/06

no intemacy

Living with my spouse is like living with a brother / sister. There is no intamacy. And things seem very cold. Is it time to get out when things are at this stage in a relationship ?? we still have time to carry on and maybe make someone else happy. We are in our early forties

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Not so much the time to get out, but the time to seek marriage counselling to see if you can put right what's not working at present

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Posted by: Obvious | 2012/03/08

You know what...........

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Posted by: Just Me | 2012/03/08

Dont do what ?

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Posted by: Obvious | 2012/03/07

Dont do this...........

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Posted by: Johan | 2012/03/07

Since we experiencing the similar problem, would you perhaps like to be just friends?

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Posted by: Just Me | 2012/03/07

Two kids both under 12

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Posted by: Johan | 2012/03/07

Sorry to hear that. If i may ask - how many kids, if any, do you have?

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Posted by: Just Me | 2012/03/06

Seriously considering it

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Posted by: Johan | 2012/03/06

I wish i could, but the situation does not permit me to do so. Are you deciding to go that route?

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Posted by: Just Me | 2012/03/06

Johan
Is it not time to move on

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Posted by: Johan | 2012/03/06

Well, we even sleep in seperate rooms - like house mates. No Intimacy whatsover. When it does happen it is wham bam thank you mam - no kissing, fondling, touching etc. I can relate to excatly what you are saying.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2012/03/06

Not so much the time to get out, but the time to seek marriage counselling to see if you can put right what's not working at present

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