Our expert says:
Right --- you can't force him to love you. An rom the sound of it, he loves only himself, not you, the child, nor even the other woman, and he has shown no respect for any of you. See a counsello aboput dealing better with your stress, and work on freeing yourself from involvement with this deadbeat. Go to the Maintenance Court to make sure he has to pay full maintenance for the child, and move on, so that you can eventually find a real man rather than a naughty boy, and someone who will respect you both and actually love you rather than use you.
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