Our expert says:
What do you mean by "BEING with someone 100%" ? Being constantly physically with them all day, 24/7 ? Or being sincerely involved emotionally with them and not with other people at the same time ? What you describe sounds like a harem, with a regiment of ex's remaining in contact with you. That suggests you are under-committed to any current relationship, and that none of them have thus far managed to find a satisfying relationship, either.
If I kept in communication with everyone I have ever met but don't hold current grudges against, I'd have no time for anything else. And you're also risking essentially spending life moving vaguely ahead ( or maybe sideways ) while looking backwards.
You may plan to change "when there is a ring on your finger", but this method of proceeding significantly reduces your risk of ending up with a ring on your finger. Someone with a finger in too many pies, ends up with a ring on none of them.
As Maria implies, as you commit to nobody, its highly unlikely anyone would think of committing to you.
And do you really think, as a woman, that copying laddish men is the best way to select your behaviour ?
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