Our expert says:
Liza's just exactly right. There's no exact recipe for how long it takes before you are able to trust someone safely - sometimes the answer is "never", sometimes it takes years. Be checked with a gynae for STD, and maybe there's some separate cause for the pain you have been experiencing. Marriage counselling may then be worth it, not necessarily to keep you together, but to move towards being able to make a more sensible decision about that.
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