Our expert says:
The child needs to be properly cared for, and is the priority. But coddling the Ex and catering for whatever SHE wants, is not necessary or appropriate. And it sounds as though your husband's business works WITH a significant subsidy from you, using your home as its premises and your payments to help.
A Blackberry was a ridiculous luxury, and a most expensive way for a child to access the internet, which should be provided at any school that expects the children to sue the web for projects and homework, and can be accessed from an internet cafe probabl more cheaply. I wonder how much the Ex uses the Blakckberry for her own purposes ?
The fair amount of Maintenance payments is almost always best decided by a Maintenance Court, taking into account genuine needs rather than vengeful Ex's wishes, and dividing those expenses fairly between the parents - without assuming that the Ex is entitled to personal support for life without having the duty to look for work to support herseelf and her child.
Amd she should try acting like an adult parent and learn how to care for the child without needing daily calls for his advice - that sounds much more like her way of keeping him close to her.
Her over-reaction to his highly resonable comment suggests that she wishes to cause the problems she is causing, and has an exaggerated sense of entitlement for life. He is not now required to repay her for whatever he didn't give her while they were married.
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