Our expert says:
Sounds like you're in love, not with the actual guy himself, but with a fantasy of what h e might be like IF he made major changes in his personality and behaviour --- which he isn't likely to do. op makes good sense --- have a calm heart-to-heart talk about all this, and decide together whether you can revise the relationship so it becomes more satisfying for both of you ( maybe with the help of a relationship counsellor ) or whether you end it in a friendly fashion and both move on.
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