Our expert says:
This is the second post today which seems to assume that there are firm and absolute rules about such relationship issues. There aren't.
Nobody, ever, is "the one" ( a concept which has many things wrong with it, including the false assumption that there is only "one", ever, and that if you let them go, that's it forever.
If he is truly an ex, let him be thoroughly Ex. Going back to quibble and argue about some aspect of what happened while you were together is not useful, and usually just stirs up unhelpful bad feelings. "Confrontation" is also greatly over-rated. Leabe him behind in your dust. And start dating again when you feel fully ready, not rushing back to it before then
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