Our expert says:
I assume that since your only evidence for her using her vibrator is her accessing the safe, that this means it is the only item in the safe, and you are certain she isn't accessing other things...?
You have received a lot of advice from the public already, some of it quite good - I'd suggest that instead of trying to guess, you ASK her. Try to have an open-minded approach when asking her (confrontational approach may frighten or embarrass her) and if your suspicions are true, ask about her reasons for this so that you can dispell any misapprehensions you are holding (i.e. that she is is unsatisfied in some way with you or the sexual relationship). As someone else suggested, it is likely that you masturbate too, so perhaps this is her way of meeting her own needs...
Claire - SASHA
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