Posted by: Hurt | 2009-04-14

Need advice


I dont know how to feel, i broke up with my boyfriend of 3years because he cheated on me 6 times, i really loved him. I have now found someone new but it is not the same, i think i keep looking for my ex in him and i should not do it....this man loves me very much and so do i but i need some help on how to treat him better and let him in my life. PLEASE HELP

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I wish I could delare a moratorium on questions about cheating and breakups --- getting so many every single day is so depressing on this side ! After one episode of cheating, some people would never trust him again. After 2 that's a wise approach. After 6 cheatings, if you're still around you are asking him to cheat. Don't rush into a new relationship, its not likely to succeed --- get over the first one before getting serious with anyone else. Remember all the good reasons why your ex is ex.

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Posted by: BI | 2009-04-14

What helped me was thinking of the pain my ex caused. It helped me " switch off"  to his power over me even after he left me...
It' s not easy but remembering the pain helps you wipe him out. And whoever you with now just give it time to find out if this is going anywhere or not...

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