Our expert says:
Someone boobed and opened this forum much earlier than they had agreed, so it's only by accident that I have discovered your message and been able to answer it during my "holiday" !
So this is a problem yopu recognized before the marriage, but perhaps hoped it would lessen or that you could handle it better between you ? Indeed, maybe you can, working on the issue together within marriage counselling. Leaving you stranded at the hotel was indeed most unfortunate --- and maybe he isn't as well organized at the office as he could be, or perhaps he's bad at delegating efficiently to others. or he wouldn't have felt he needed to dash back there for 3 hours.
As for the car, was he perhaps watching so as to try to learn more about them, to perhaps manage some repairs himself ? And perhaps, like many of us, having had dreadful experiences with mechanincs, he feels it necessary to keep an eye on things, to see they're done properly, and to avoid getting charged for things that don't actually get done ?
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