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Long story, as meeting with H24 top brass postponed to June. And the planned meeting the other Saturday fell through. through nobody's fault, when the very nice top chap fell ill a the last moment. Its still planned, and I have made notes on comments about the re-design.
As for Ne, the teahers comments fit with your morning problems --- it sounds as though she is frustrated by her dis-abilities, about the things she can't do for herself, and especially when people insist on doing for her things she could do for herself. I wonder whether the carer tends to do things Ne could do, because Ne would be much slower -- and this would be like her being annoyed when kids at school wipe her nose for her. I don['t know your time-table, but is it possible to give Ne a personal timetable, in which she'd have X amount of time to do Y chores within the task of getting herself dressed and ready, and know that she can get help from the carer whenever she asks for it, and that if she can't finish each task within the time needed, the carer will step in to complete the task. To emphasize how much she is doing for herself and praising her for all she can do, de-emphasizing what she can't do ( either at all or not within the time available ).
Sounds like she's getting more assertive, both in a useful self-protective way, and sometimes perhaps inappropriately.
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