Our expert says:
your frst option should be therapy. if your wife is not listening to your concerns now, it is highly likely that without therapy she still will not listen to them. try brining home sex ed literature to indicate to her the wide options available - both in terms of sexual desire / needs and alternative sexual acts. she may ask you to respect her desire to have penetrative sex only once every ten days but can offer you outer / oral sex on a daily basis.
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