Our expert says:
Stressing is usually a choice which surprisingly many of us make. Why on earth get a gift for a miserable and unpleasant person ? She cannot and will not buy their love or respect, so why bother ?
She needs, maybe with the aid of a counsellor, to face the fact that she cannot and will not, ever make everyone happy. The world doesn't work like that. You can try not to make others unnecessarily unhappy, but their happiness is THEIR responsibility.
Especially if the miserable old biddy has previously given back gifts, I'd suggest either giving nothing, or just sending a message that as a gift you have made a donation to a good charity in her name. At least she can't give that one back !
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