Our expert says:
Family isn't always centrally important in our lives, but obviously it ofen is so. But its not an importance we necessarily need to create. And its always going to be difficult when you're only together briefly and live in different countries.
Maybe in the exact situation you describe, you should urgently tell her that you are not a hotel, that you would really like to spend time with her, and she is welcome to stay with you for some days AFTER the wedding , ro get to know you and so you can enjoy time together ; but during the days she plans to be exclusively wrapped up with her friend getting maried, you suggest that the marrying friend should provide accomodation, transport, etc. Invite her to add some "sister" rays on the end of her wedding visit, to spend with you, when you will be very happy to be her host. YOur husband could well be right, if she is simpl using you for free accomodation and travel while visiting entirely other people who ought to host her
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