Our expert says:
Hmmm. Effeminacy has, perhaps surprisingly, rather little to do with sexual orientation. One comes across some cloyingly effeminate men who are devotedly heterosexual, and some dramaically butch guys who are exclosively gay.
And few people are 100 % homosexual or 100 $ heterosexual in tastes and behaviours. Some have various combinations of interests, some are confused.
Seeing a good local counsellor or psychologist for a chance to explore your mixed experiences and feelings could be really useful.
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