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Posted by: Ricki | 2012/12/04

My nuwejaars voorneme

Ek het al voorheen op hierdie forum gepraat en gekla en raad gevra, want ek is in n verhouding vir 1en n half jaar, met iemand wat glo hy is altyd reg, ek se nie dit is nie so nie..maar altyd? en vra nooit onverskoning nie, as ons baklei dan ignoreer hy my vir n week lank, sms, eposse enige -|- ak...hy het vanoggend vir my gese, nadat ek dit genoem het, hy se nie meer hy is lief vir my nie, dan doen ek iets wat hom nie in ag neem nie, of ek beskuldig hom van iets, en ek maak dit moeilik vir hom om vir my lief te wees...Hoe op aarde kan n mens liefde aan en af skakel..ek weet ons hou nie elke dag baie van mekaar nie, vernaamlik as daar menings verskille is, en sy laaste antwoord was, dit is ek wat alles begin en nie hy nie...sy Pa is ook so n moeilike ou man, sy Ma het my al gewaarsku dit word nooit beter nie, so ek het besluit ek gaan in die nuwe jaar aansluit by n saam kom klub vir ongetroudes en probeer inskakel, want my groot probleem is, ek haat dit om alleen te wees...ek gaan vir my n nuwe lewe bou in 2013...dit is my voorneme

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Gosh, he is certain he is always right - is he not perhaps a politician ?
Seriously, as you describe the relationship, one has to wonder why you choose to continue to be in a relationship with such a person ? Its not compulsory. Why have you not chosen to move on and continue looking for someone better ?
Not only does he apparently think he is always right, but he seems to think no problems ever arise in the relationship unless you cause them.
If his father is similar, and has got away with this for many years, why would he want to change himself ?
Move on. It is FAR better to be alone by yourself, than to be alone with someone like him. If you really find i awfully hard to be alone, see a counsellor to help become free from needing others so badly that you'll put up with even bad people rather than be alone. learn to enjoy and celebrate yourself, too.

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