Our expert says:
Well, I'm sure other readers will have some helpful suggestions. I'd think it important to set rules at the very start, because it would feel to her like cheating to impose rules after she's settled in. Rules depend on her needs, her bad habits, and your own needs and capabilities. What chores will she be able to help with, an with what frequency ; what will she, reasonably, need from you ? What may be specified to be re-negotiated if the situation changes ? Will she contribute financially ? Who will pay for, do, or accompany her for, shopping ?
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