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Posted by: johan | 2010/05/24

my mooi maatjie se seer

My vriend se ouers is besig om te skei. Dit is n baie seer en teer saak vir hom. sy verhouding met sy pa het vererger en hy baie kwaad en negatief teenoor hom. Ek weet nie wat om te se of wat om te doen nie. Ekke weet nie hoe dit moet wees of voel as jou ouers skei nie. Ek wil so graag vir hom help, iets se, maar ek weet nie wat nie. Hoe hanteer ek dit.

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Is his worsening relationship with hi dad reasonable - has he perhaps been bothered by something about how his dad has been treating his mom ? Help him IF he wants help, with whatever he wants help with ; otherwise you are probably most helpful by simply being sympathetic and listening.

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Posted by: H | 2010/05/25

Afgesien van wat normaalweg tussen hom en sy Pa gebeur, ''n kind voel skuldig en dink dis sy skuld dat sy Ouers skei, en wil dit natuurlik nie sien gebeur nie.

Hy moet verstaan dat sy Ouers hom STEEDS liefhet, hierdie is ''n probleem tussen hulle twee, dis nie die kinders se skuld nie. Hy gaan nog altyd beide sy Ouers he en kan ''n goeie verhouding met beide handhaaf, ai is hulle geskei.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010/05/25

Is his worsening relationship with hi dad reasonable - has he perhaps been bothered by something about how his dad has been treating his mom ? Help him IF he wants help, with whatever he wants help with ; otherwise you are probably most helpful by simply being sympathetic and listening.

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