Our expert says:
Hmm. Firstly, I don't understand ( because you don't explain it in your message ) why the little girl had her hair shaved off. Was this medically necessary for some odd reason ? Otherwise it sounds like vandalism, and would of course encourage teasing of the child, and the child feeling extra self-conscious. I don't understand the reason you give, as it still sounds like a bad idea.
Its understandable if you felt uneasy about little boys of creche age kissing a girl and describing her as sexy ( one wonders about what goes on in their homes and lives ) but depending on how the teachers dealt with your concerns, this might have made other kids wary of approaching her, through no fault of hers.
I agree with Lee that the school may have handled this badly, and should rather have taught ALL the kids about the issues of bullying, privacy, respect for others and enjoying diversity.
The idea of a play date is also a good one.
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